• Consensuality

    promoting consensual intimacy
  • Consensuality

    through informed enthusiastic consent
  • Consensuality

    and education
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Mission

We educate, empower and enable people to advocate for human sexual connection, intimacy, informed enthusiastic consent, safe sexual exploration and acceptance. Read More
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People

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Press

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FAQ

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News

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  • Who We Are

    We are a group of sex educators and sex positive people dedicated to educating the world about affirmative and enthusiastic consent practices and ethical monogamous and non-monogamous relationships.
  • What We Do

    We aim lead the global conversation about what's healthy in adult relationships among sexual beings. We offer counseling and educational resources to teach consent negotiation to individuals from every demographic. Contact us to learn more about what we offer.
  • Where We Are

    We set up spaces at transformational festivals and host talks, workshops, and social events to educate the public as to the seeking and acquisition of informed enthusiastic consent in all forms of sexual relationships. We are currently primarily US based but are expanding rapidly.
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What is Consent?

Consensual sexual activity happens when each partner willingly chooses to participate in previously approved sexual activities. Open communication about expectations and desires is a critical factor in obtaining consent.

Consent is:

  • Verbal and Clear. Your sexual partner must be given every opportunity to communicate his/her wishes. Discuss needs, expectations, and desires before and during any situation. Anything other than an enthusiastic yes means no, always ask first.
  • Sober and unimpaired. Consent can only be given by a person who has control of his or her mental capacities, is not drunk or high, and is legally in position to give consent.
  • Consistent. Even if someone has given consent to be sexually involved with another, that person has the right to withdraw consent at ANY time. Check in with your partner regularly to see if their situation has changed.
  • Unforced and non-threatened. Use of force, intimidation, or coercion is denial of a person's right to freely give his/her consent. Share the power and control of the situation by communicating openly about your expectations and desires in the moment.

Consensuality: Navigating Feminism...

Consensuality: Navigating Feminism, Gender, and Boundaries Towards Loving Relationships

July 14, 2015

Human relationships contain infinite possibilities, but the fairytale ideal of companionship does not exist for most people. In Consensuality, Helen Wildfell and her co-adventurers detail the process for creating a healthy, successful relationship and avoiding common pitfalls. The authors explore gender identity, sexual boundaries, power struggles, and emotional dysfunction. They offer their experiences in overcoming regret and resentment, finding self-empowerment, and provide hard-won communication tips for building healthy partnerships. Filled with personal descriptions of the complex layers in human interaction, Consensuality's stories and illustrations combine gender studies with memoir to truly make the personal political.

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    Consensuality: Navigating Feminism, Gender, and Boundaries Towards Loving Read More
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  • This Is How You Teach Kids About Consent +

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